Post sebelom masok 2014!

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Sunday, December 29, 2013 11:53 AM

Wahhhh, dah lama tinggal belog ni. Bersawang macam ape je~~ biyann ye che belog.

Tinggal 2 hari lagi nak masok tahon baru masihi ; 2014!

Nak buat ke tak azam baru untuk tahun masihi ini? Hmm.. Patotnya buatlah azam awal tahun hijri kan? Isyh isyh.. liberal betol!  Hahaha.

Penat nya tetiap hari. Penat dengan kesibukan dunia. Tiap-tiap hari macam-macam fikir. Tiap-tiap hari dok risau masa depan. Tiap-tiap hari cuba jaga perasaan, jaga emosi.

Hakikatnya, aku KENA ingat, I am still a human being! Buat salah silap itu norma bukan?. Alahhh, ayat cliche nya, Manusia tidak akan pernah terlepas dari melakukan kesilapan.

Hari ini aku sentap sikit. Ada satu benda aku nak share. Share ape? Hah,! Ni nak bagitau. Jazakallah cousie sebab rajin sangat mengepost benda-benda rohani ni. Allah Allah! Moga kita semua dapat beramal dengan ilmu yang kita pelajari, tak kesahlah ilmu duniawi ke ukhrawi. Yang ukhrawi lagi-lagi lah kena beramal idok? Kang tak pasal-pasal, terburai perot dalam neraka! Takotnyeeeee :( :( :(

Kalau ada terdetik..

"Kenapa aku nak taubat? Nanti aku buat dosa lagi."

Cuba fikir balik..

"Kenapa pulak aku kena mandi? Nanti aku busuk balik?"

"Kenapa aku kena makan? Nanti lapar balik?"

Taubat, tekad. Bila terulang semula dosa, ulang semula taubat. Jangan pernah putus asa dengan rahmat Allah. Biar kita mati dalam usaha untuk bertaubat,

Jangan kita mati dalam keadaan putus asa.

Jadilah orang yang baru setiap saat!


Aku suka sangat dengan statement ; JADILAH ORANG YANG BARU SETIAP SAAT!
Allah Allah! Kalau dihitung dosa-dosa, memang tak layak sorga itu untuk aku. Tapi, kita cuba.
Cuba untuk setiap saat ingat pada Allah dan Rasulullah sallahualaihiwasallam
So, antara resolusi aku untuk lebih ingat Rasulullah sallahualaihiwasallam adalah aku akn pasang selawat nabi nyanyian Maher Zain (berentak sikit) , jadi secara tak langsung mulut aku pon ikot sama berselawat, inshaallah!

Korang pulak macam mana? Apa resolusi korang? Jom bina resolusi masing2. Hah, lupe nak cakap satu benda lagi, ada orang suka qasidah. Jadi, mungkin boleh masok dalam resolusi jugak!

Okay. sampai sini sudah. Tengok lah kalau aku rajin, aku update lagi.
Maassalamah Wa ilalliqa' dari Bumi Nil =D

Salamu alaykum.

Winners are people like you.

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Saturday, October 12, 2013 7:57 PM

Winners take chances.

Like everyone else, they fear failing,
But they refuse to let fear control them.

Winners don’t give up.
When life gets rough, they hang in
Until the going gets better.

Winners are flexible.
They realize there is more than one way
And are willing to try others.

Winners know they are not perfect.
They respect their weaknesses
While making the most of their strengths.

Winners fall, but they don’t stay down.
They stubbornly refuse to let a fall
Keep them from climbing.

Winners don’t blame fate for their failures
Nor luck for their successes.

Winners accept responsibility
For their lives.

Winners are positive thinkers
Who see good in all things.
From the ordinary
They make the extraordinary.

Winners believe in the path
They have chosen
Even when it’s hard,
Even when others can’t see
Where they are going.

Winners are patient.
They know a goal is only as worthy
As the effort that’s required to achieve it.

Winners are people like you.
They make this world
a better place to be……

Copyright © 1996 By Nancye Sims

ummu dunya

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Wednesday, August 28, 2013 4:12 AM

Ummu dunya.

Bumi sejarah. Bumi Anbiya'. Bumi Firaun.
Banyak maqam-maqam solihin di sana.

Selama empat tahun aku bermastautin kat sana.
Aku tak sempat lagi berjaulah maqam di Bahnasa.
Dan itu jugalah salah satu tempat yang aku aku nak kunjung 
sebelum aku habis belajar.

InsyaAllah, diizinkan Tuhan aku balik semula sana,
lagi banyak maqam syuhada' yang aku boleh ziarahi.
Ramai syuhada' di bumi mesir ini.

Bertuah nya aku. Tuhan beri aku peluang ber'hidup' di sana.
Aku mahu cintaku terus subur buatmu Mesir.
Aku rindu.
Aku bertuah.
Terima kasih Tuhan buat segalanya.

serius. lagu long live egypt tapi yang versi untuk rabaah tu buat aku banjir. Teruskan sokongan buat muslim seluruh dunia. #palestin #syria #mesir.
sebab kita semua egyptian, palestinian, syrian!

#poem #familylove

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Friday, May 31, 2013 4:14 PM


To me you are an angle in disguise.
Full of intuition, intelligent and wise.
Always giving and helping through good times and bad times.
You are the best friend I've ever had.

If I had one wish it would surely be
to give you as much you've given me

Though I've put our relationship through some cloudy days,
you've been my sunshine in so many ways.
Though trials and tests, right by me you stood,
and gave me your hand whenever you could.

Thank you so much my sister, my friend
My gratitude for you has no end....


Happy happy happy MAMA day :*

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Sunday, May 12, 2013 1:42 PM


If I knew as a child what I know now, Mom,
I probably wouldn't have made things
so hard for you.
I would have understood
that you were looking out for my best interest.
even though it may not have seemed so at the time.
I would have known how difficult it is to let go,
to stand back and let someone you love
learn from their mistakes.
I would have realized
how fortunate I was to have a mother
who was always there for me,
even after an argument,
even after I'd said things
I shouldn't have.
While it's too late for a lot of things,
it's not too late for me to tell you
that I appreciate how loving you are,
how giving you've always been
and that even though
I may not always be good at showing it,
I love you very much. 


I know how often I took you for granted
when I was growing up.
I always assumed you'd be there
when I needed you...
and you always were.
But I never really thought about what that meant
till I got older and began to realize,
how often your time and energy were devoted to me.
so now, for all the times I didn't say it before,
thank you, Mom...I love you so very much! 

Jazakillah bil jannah mama <3>
along heart mama forevah .. muahhhxx =) 
pray for me, ma,  so that i one day can also be a supermommy to my children, insyaALLAH just the way you've been to us <3>

But for the time being, i am content of just being your precious daughter XD
With lots of hugs and kissess from Cairo :*

Kemuliaan akhlak sang puteri.

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Saturday, May 11, 2013 1:03 PM

Bismillah.

Rasa macam tak boleh tidur malam kalau tak share 'bendalah' ni :)

Allah. Berbelah bagi, nak share ke tak. Khuwatir kalau me myself is not up to it :(
Tapi, insyaALLAH, apa2 yang baik, kalau kita saling berkongsi, moga ada saham untuk mizan nanti, ye dak ?  *sengihs*

"Wanita, muslimah atau perempuan merupakan calon 'madrasah' (sekolah) kepada anak-anak yang bakal dilahirkan kelak. Hakikatnya, mendidik 'madrasah' iaitu para wanita adalah untuk melahirkan 'madrasah-madrasah' baru iaitu anak-anak. Jika baik 'madrasah' yang dididik itu, maka baiklah 'madrasah-madrasah' yang akan dihasilkan kelak."  - Al-Habib Ali Zainal Abidin bin Abu Bakar Al-Hamid


Sayyidatina Fatimah Az-Zahra rha ialah seorang putri kesayangan Rasulullah ﷺ. Beliau insan solehah yang amat pemalu. Beliau amat pemalu di depan suami beliau sendiri, apatah lagi di depan orang lain. Bahkan malu untuk terdengar suaranya, apatah lagi terlihat akan auratnya.

Pernah suatu ketika insan mulia ini menangis di malam hari,

Berkata Sayyidatina Asma’ binti Humais rha,
"Demi ALLAH, apa yang telah membuatmu menangis wahai binti Rasulullah?"

Lantas Sayyidatina Fatimah rha berkata,
“Aku memikirkan tetang apa yang diperbuat oleh orang-orang terhadap jenazah seorang wanita, membungkusnya dengan kain kafan dan membawanya dalam keadaan bentuk tubuhnya yang terlihat?"

Berkata Sayyidatina Asma’ rha,
“Subhanallah. Atas apa ayahmu mendidikmu? Ayahmu telah mendidikmu dengan rasa malu yang sangat tinggi. Engkau malu kalau jasadmu terlihat di hadapan orang-orang/laki-laki yang bukan mahram mu.”

Kemudian Asma’ binti Humais berkata kepada Sayyidatina Fatimah rha,
“Wahai Fatimah, aku mendengar di negeri Habsya mereka meletakkan jenazah di dalam peti kayu sebagai penutup yang dapat menutupi jasad.”.

Mendengar hal tersebut, Sayyidatina Fatimah sangat gembira lalu berkata,
“Aku wasiatkan kepadamu wahai Asma’, untuk membuatkannya untuk jenazahku nanti.”

Kemudian Sayyidatina Fatimah memanggil Sayyidina Ali bin Abi Thalib dan berkata,
“Aku merasa ajalku kian dekat wahai suamiku, Aku mewasiatkan atasmu 3 perkara, iaitu :

Yang pertama : Setelah aku meninggal dunia nanti, menikahlah dengan Umamah binti Ukhti Zainab.
Yang kedua : Jangan ada yang memandikanku selain engkau wahai Ali.
Yang ketiga : Kuburkanlah aku di malam hari.

Tidak lama kemudian Sayyidatina Fatimah dipanggil oleh ALLAH SWT, dan Sayyidatina Fatimah pergi meninggalkan dunia ini ketika umurnya 29 tahun. Sungguh umur yang sangat muda, namun ALLAH Ta’ala lebih mencintai Sayyidatina Fatimah. Dan berbahagialah Sayyidatina Fatimah karena bertemu ayahnya Sayyidina Muhammad ﷺ.

Sayyidatina Fatimah meninggalkan dunia ini di umur yang sangat muda, namun Sayyidatina Fatimah meninggalkan cahaya yang sangat terang atas para wanita sebagai suri tauladan yg dapat membawa mereka ke dalam suatu keberuntungan abadi dalam keredhaan ALLAH dan Kekasih ALLAH.

اللهم صل على سيدنا محمد وعلى آله وصحبه وسلم
 ...............................................................................................


Menjadi solehah itu mungkin mudah. ( iyeke?  cukup syarat eyh? )
tapi, menjadi si solehah yang pemalu itu,
susah benar untuk aku =.=  huhuhu

taperlah, kita cuba pelan-pelan ye :)

SHARED FROM : fb ahmad salihin

#mind #rant

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie 9:45 AM

These past three weeks had been very trying for me.
I tell you peeps, I almost lose it. hehs
All praise be to ALLAH, things are getting better.

Things have gone deeper than intended.
And I want to make it right.
What matter most is to return back to Him,
no matter how many times I've lost my way :)

Only one month left until our final examination.
I badly need your duaas, folks.. :')
Let's raise our hands together and humbly ask Him :')

Okay, let us keep calm and start studying! 

see ya next time.
xoxo

Our expectation.

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Saturday, April 27, 2013 8:23 AM

Salam alaikum and peace to all :*

A usual day routine as always. Went to school, went back home, had a nap awhile after zuhr (erkk)  then, woke up for asr, logged in facebook and eventually came across this sharing from ukhti Hidayah :)

I just want to share this over here. So that, insyaALLAH we can gain something from every sharing done :) May Allah bless her :) 

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When we see religious people, or people we think fit as the 'alim' (learned ones), we always have this expectation that they are perfect and free from voids, mistakes or mischief. We seem to form this whole idea, that 'orang alim' should and must be perfect, tak pernah buat silap.

And I used to have same thinking back then as well. When I saw someone who never misses solat, yet still hot-tempered, I questioned his/her religiosity. I questioned their heart. And for one defect they make, I turned blind to all the good they did. One dot on the white canvas makes the entire painting ugly.

It is a wrong thing to do indeed. Didn't ALLAH says:

" He knows what is in the heavens and on earth ; and He knows what you conceal and what you reveal ; and Allah knows well the secrets of all hearts. " (Surah At-Taghabun, 64:4 )

Who am I, you, us to judge what's in another's heart? Only He knows what is in the deepest of the heart, invisible to the eyes.

And no one is ever perfect, if not, why there are countless hadith and verses that repeatedly ask us to remind each other, and call each other to the way of our Lord? Surely, He knows best.

Nobody is perfect. A syeikh, a teacher, an engineer, a doctor or whosoever it is, we are here to complete each other. :)

You'll always be beautiful.

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Tuesday, April 23, 2013 3:50 PM


You’re my piece of mind,
in this crazy world.
You're everything I’ve tried to find,
your love is a pearl.

You’re my Mona Lisa, you’re my rainbow skies,
and my only prayer, is that you realize,
you’ll always be beautiful, in my eyes


The world will turn,
and the seasons will change.
And all the lessons we will learn,
will be beautiful and strange.

We’ll have our feel of tears, our share of sighs.
My only prayer, is that you realize.
You’ll always be beautiful, in my eyes.

You will always be, beautiful in my eyes.
And the passing years will show,
that you will always grow,
ever more beautiful, in my eyes.

And there are lines upon my face,
from a lifetime of smiles.
But when the time comes to embrace.
for one long last while.


We can laugh about it, how time really flies.
We won’t say goodbye, ’cause true-love never dies.
You’ll always be beautiful, in my eyes.


You will always be, beautiful in my eyes.
And the passing years will show,
that you will always grow,
ever more beautiful, in my eyes.

The passing years will show,
that you will always grow,
ever more beautiful, in my eyes.

#GE13

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Tuesday, April 16, 2013 7:54 AM

salam alaikum everyone ^^ 

how's life going on? 
Hopefully eberibodi is in good spirit and always always be positive! 

wow wow..  i don't know what to write actually but i'm just feeling a little bit giddy right this moment. Haha :D

#HOT TOPICS : GE13 

JOM all-out for a better Malaysia, a better place to 'grow our future kids' .aha! :P 
i am deadly serious about this matter, okay? :)

@ I'm not a critical thinker. i learn to be one. this is all what i can do. pray! pray! pray! well, what i really want to say is that i don't know how to further elaborate about #GE13 . yeah, partly because i don't really read much, understand any, ( maybe a little bit ). =.=
but lets get the fact straight, we really are in need of a 'change'.

okay guys/girls. JOM kita all-out masak harini! 

I have learned...

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Monday, April 15, 2013 6:08 AM

I have learned...

  • that when you're in love, it shows.
  • that just one person saying to me, "You've made my day!" makes my day.
  • that being kind is more important than being right.
  • that you should never say no to a gift from a child.
  • that I can always pray for someone when I don't have the strength to help him in some other way.
  • that no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with.
  • that sometimes all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
  • that it's those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
  • that under everyone's hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
  • that to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
  • that when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
  • that love, not time, heals all wounds.
  • that everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
  • that no one is perfect until you fall in love with them.
  • that opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
  • that when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
  • that I wish I could have told my Dad that I love him one more time before he passed away.
  • that one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
  • that a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
  • that I can't choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.
  • that everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you're climbing it.
  • that it is best to give advice in only two circumstances; when it is requested and when it is a life threatening situation. 

by : Andy Rooney

sujud pembebasan

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Wednesday, April 10, 2013 6:32 AM


“Sujud itu menundukkan dahi, tetapi
Memuliakan dan meninggikan muslim yg bertasbih padaNya
Si jahil menyangkanya belenggu ke atas hamba
Tetapi sujudlah yg memusnahkan segala belenggu-belenggu itu
Padanya,semua makhluk akan tunduk kepada muslim yang sujud
Seluruh Alam takut kepada kata-kata dan perbuatannya
Wajah dan seluruh anggotanya melekat di bumi
tetapi ia menggoncangkan gunung-ganang
Meruntuhkan syirik dan was-was di dalam diri,
tetapi ia juga membangunkan generasi-generasi.
Dalam diam,kerana hati ada perjalanan yang menundukkan bumi
lantaran kehebatan dan kebesaranNya
Sujudnya hanya kepada Allah,ia mengesakanNya, lalu mantap dan kuat
Menghapuskan setiap penzalim yang sombong
Barangsiapa menghayati sujud ini
dia menikmati kepimpinan dan ketuanan di muka bumi, dengan keagungannya
rahmat dan keindahannya“

-Abdul Wahab Azam-

niyyah and us.

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Thursday, March 21, 2013 3:41 PM

Salam alaykum everybody ^^ peace to all~~

ophthalmology clinical round has finally come to an end. T_T so sadddd.. you know why, because this means that it's getting closer to get back home. And this means next year i'll be in the fifth year, and yet i feel i still need  a long way to go. huhu.. ( hey, MATI tu lagi dekat.. ye ye saya tau. Kalau according to the life plan, macam tu lah kan? Panjang umur, sempat saya merasa naik tahun 5.. ) [KITA KENA SELALU INGAT MATI]. lupe pulak masih ada round ENT.. hehe :P

masalah betul kalau tak pernah mahu sedar ni. okay, no more self-pitying. Sepatutnya haruslah mula serius. eh eh.. it should be from the start. But, it's okay lah, as long as you find your way back.. 

I want to share with all of my readers. ( don't know lah ada readers ke tak kan.. but if by any chance people do read this, i hope they'll benefit something from what i wrote :) ) This is something which i got from my usrah. My friend is responsible to give a tazkirah for today, and she said something about niyyah (niat).

To make it short, lebih kurang macam ni lah.Tadabbur ayat 69 surah al-qasas.

- Allah tahu apa yang diperkatakan mahupun yang disembunyikan dalam dada. so, apa yang kita sembunyi dalam dada tu? Mestilah apa yang kita rasa, apa yang kita fikir, kiranya niat pun trmasuk dalam kategori ni kan~~ :) 

- my friend said that, if semua benda yang kita buat, kita tak niatkan pun kerana ALLAH. Kita buat bukan sebab Dia, kita masak, basuh baju, kemas rumah, datang usrah/sc, musyrifkan orang, belajar, etc bukan sebab DIA.... 

nanti di akhirat, bila kita persembahkan buku amalan kita di hadapan ALLAH, kita dapati ianya 'putih bersih' (kosong catatan-catatan). And we ask Allah, kenapa kosong? Bukankah aku pernah berbuat sedemikian begini dan begitu? And then, ALLAH replies to us ; Dulu, segalanya yang kau perbuat adalah untuk sekian-sekian tujuan.. Kau masak bukan kerana Aku, tetapi sebab taknak kawan membebel, kau datang belajar ke Mesir kerana kehendak orang tua, bukan kerana Aku. PERGILAH.. cari pahala dari mereka-mereka tersebut ( kawan, ibu bapa, pemerintah etc)..

I don't know how to describe it in a much proper writing. But this is what i grab and what touches me the most~ How we neglect Him very much while He remembers us all the times. Want some proofs? The fact that we can still draw breath.. the fact that your fingers move to type the words and so much more.

And Allah finally said to us ; '' Which then of the bounties of your Lord will you deny? '' (Ar-Rahman) 

May ALLAH forgive our sins. Ameen ya rabb.



#productivemuslim # iFest

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Monday, March 11, 2013 2:22 PM

 

[ man-woman ]

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Sunday, March 10, 2013 2:38 PM

okay okay.. don't be mad.
i know that when i say wait for my next post, it sounds and should be after a couple of days, or after weeks (not weeks lah.. STEP kan 29th march ni.. melampau lah kalau nak bagi preSTEP after the event itself kan? :P)

so, the story goes like this, the usual one..haha
i came to read one of the status wrote by one of my friends.( i am not really sure whether this is her own doing or not =,=)
promoting STEP is what she is doing :D and i can't resist to share it over here. typical me. (terima je lah ye, saya mmg suka share; agak poyo di situ -.- )


when mecca meets medina.
when men meets women.
mecca symbolizes men, medina represents women.
what happen when these two meet each other? hah! :) 



mecca and medina :)



Man is the most elevated of creatures,
Woman the most sublime of ideals.

God made for man a throne; for woman an altar.
The throne exalts, the altar sanctifies.

Man is the brain,
Woman, the heart.
The brain creates light, the heart, love.
Light engenders, love resurrects.

Because of reason Man is strong.
Because of tears Woman is invincible.
Reason is convincing, tears, moving.

Man is capable of all heroism,
Woman of all martyrdom.
Heroism ennobles, martyrdom sublimates.

Man has supremacy,
Woman, preference.
Supremacy is strength, preference is the right.

Man is a genius,
Woman, an angel.
Genius is immeasurable, the angel indefinable.
The aspiration of man is supreme glory,
The aspiration of woman is extreme virtue.
Glory creates all that is great; virtue, all that is divine.

Man is an ocean, Woman a lake.
The ocean has the adorning pearl, the lake, dazzling poetry.

Man is the flying eagle, Woman, the singing nightingale.
To fly is to conquer space. To sing is to conquer the soul.



welcome to my hut :P

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie 12:35 PM

Salamun alaikum :) and hye there ^^

okay, let's just have fun today.. why not kan? once in a while.. break the tension.. :D


Erkk,  do remember that you've got only around 2 weeks to prepare for ophthalmology end round exam! okay okay.. urhh.. takkan lupa nye lah...

Tension ke? tensi tensi tensi..
don't knowlah.. tiba-tiba aje nak tensi, nak buat macam mana.. perempuan dan tensi tu dah macam irama dan lagu, tau?! heh3..

today i just want to fool around! yeay3!! i have read all the stories i want ( heart-wrenching stories T_T sobs3.. exaggerated kan?? ), repeatedly listening to all my favourite songs (well, what do you expect, mestilah lagu blues @,@ ), bukak buku (hmm.. sounds alien~~ heh) , manjakan diri :) ( compulsory things what for women.. of my age? apakah? am not a woman yet, still that silly, sometimes uptight girl, haha)

today, i just want to give some time for myself. To reflect back. Step back for a while, to see where i am going, what have i done, what i desire and want most, what i need to do, and the list goes on...

Does it sounds complicated? well, i rarely do that, comtemplating my actions or whatever it is.. mostly, i act based on my insticts.. (i did some thinking jugaklah.. tapi most of the time, my feelings overtake my conscience. )
Esok nak kena present for toxic, tapi tak prepare apa2 pon lagi ni (memang lah dasar suka tangguhkan kerja!) . Buku dah ada kat tepi dah nii.. haihhh -.-

Ade satu secret. Nak tau tak? heee..
In my class, there is this arabic guy ( tak taulah foreigner ke local. heh2 ). His name is Mustafa (tak taulah nama dia eja macam mana kann.. ni me lah yang eja.) My friend claims that he somehow looks like that handsome Fatih Seferagic.. haha. I don't exactly notice him in class (okay, notice je, tapi, sebelah mata je lah kann.. :P) , tapi, after that friend of mine told me about him.. haha.. i just can't take my eyes off.. haha (okayyy, ni memang exaggerate betul! not to that extent, but i give him the creditlah.. hah ) tak tsiqah betul! Astaghfirullah..


okay okay. let us stop here. Lagi banyak melalut, lagi kurang pahala, tambah dosa. mana tahu kan.. :(

i will just leave you with this quote " If you want to know where your heart is.. look where your mind goes when it wanders.. "

p/s: terasa gila dengan quote ni. huhu.. (taulah saya suka berangan..)
p/ss: my adik beli tudung baru. Ni yang nak jelez ni, takpe2, nanti balik, i pinjam ye :P
p/sss: Wait for my next post. I am thinking of writing about preSTEP II (When MECCA meets Medina ) :)






Am I with the right partner?

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Sunday, February 24, 2013 12:02 PM

Actually this article is from an FB page. but i happened to read this article from here  and am compelled to share it over here. Might be useful for future reference. hehe XD. And might as well applied it in any other kinds of relationship!


 

During a seminar, a woman asked,” How do I know if I am with the right person?”
The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, “It depends. Is that your partner?” In all seriousness, she answered “How do you know?” Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind replied the author.

Here’s the answer…

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls, want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called “falling” in love.
People in love sometimes say, “I was swept of my feet.”Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It’s a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.
Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, “Am I with the right person?” And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when relationships breakdown.
The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the person you found.
People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.
I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later.

Because:
The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it’s learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.
Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.
Love is therefore a “decision”. Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO

p/s: just recovering from common cold. Alhamdulillah :)

Kebesaran-Mu - st12

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie , Saturday, February 16, 2013 11:18 PM


Kau tempatku mengadu hati
Pemberi segala hidup
Dunia dan seisinya milik-Mu
Mencintai-Mu sejati

Ku manusia yang penuh dosa
Berharap ampunan-Mu
Lihat di langit kesempurnaan hadir-Mu
Kau cinta pertama dalam hidup

ALLAHUAKBAR Maha Besar
Memuja-Mu begitu indah
Selalu Kau berikan semua
Kebesaran-Mu Tuhan

 
 

how to love a woman

Posted by Mademoiselle Sophie 4:45 AM


You may not be her first, her last, or her only.
She loved before she may love again.
But if she loves you now, what else matters? 
She's not perfect - you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together
but if she can make you laugh,
cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, 
hold onto her and give her the most you can.
She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break - her heart.
So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.


BOB MARLEY.